duchess:

Your last sentence sums it all up.  Why are you here?  There are a hand full of posters who have only angry, mean and unkind things to say, but for the most part everyone here enjoys conversing with each other.  Maybe you and those other rude posters could start your own forum.  It should be easy enough to get their e-mail addresses and start up a forum more to your standards.  Look for the names: Taantra, MeeMee,Twinkie,WeCanHelp-and,of course, yourself.  Good luck.